The Hyggelig Journey

We often make statements about ourselves that seem harmless but, in reality, reinforce self-imposed limitations. Phrases like "I’ve never been good with numbers", "I have no coordination for dancing", or "I could never speak in front of an audience" might feel like simple truths, but when repeated, they shape an identity that may not reflect our real potential. These beliefs act as filters, shaping how we see ourselves, interpret experiences, and interact with the world. Many originate from external influences — comments from family, teachers, or peers — while others stem from our own fears and past experiences. The problem is that when we accept them without question, they begin to dictate our choices, limiting our ability to learn new skills, make confident decisions, and embrace opportunities that could lead to growth. The impact of these beliefs extends far beyond avoiding challenges. They create a sense of stagnation, reinforcing the idea ...

Throughout this month, I have seen many patients struggling with deep emotional instability. Given the circumstances, this is more than expected. However, I find this an opportune moment to reintroduce a model of emotional sustainability that can serve as a guide in times of adversity while you work towards a more pleasant, fulfilling, and meaningful life.   You are already familiar with the foundations of this guide, as I have outlined its core concepts in my last five articles. They are:   C  –  Connection : Building and maintaining supportive relationships with family, friends, and the community. H – Hope and Optimism about the Future : Believing in the possibility of a better future and working towards positive change. I – Identity : Developing or rediscovering a sense of self that is positive and resilient. M – Meaning in Life : Finding purpose through personal values, spirituality, work, or community engagement. E – Empowerment : Gaining confidenc...

Empowerment begins with the quiet realisation that, while we cannot govern all that befalls us, we are not without influence. It is the art of recognising one's inner authority — the ability to respond with intention, to adapt with grace, and to draw strength not from control over circumstances, but from alignment with one’s values. In this, empowerment becomes not merely a feeling, but a way of being. To deepen this sense, turn your attention to what is truly within your grasp. Act in accordance with your strengths, and let your choices bear the imprint of who you are becoming. Even the smallest gesture, when made with awareness, carries weight. In the context of a medical appointment, for instance, asking thoughtful questions and engaging with clarity in decisions about your care affirms your role — not as a passive recipient, but as an active participant in your own unfolding.